– Wishing Column at Hagia Sophia in Istanbul, Turkey.
I’ve written so much about love, affection and emotional intelligence over the course of time that (oddly enough) people consider me a veteran in the matters of the heart. What they don’t know is that I’ve experienced the fragility of relationships in life in order to get to this point of understanding – and I’m much stronger and happier for having endured and weathered with grace and dignity.
Relationships don’t just have to be romantic, they are formed on various wavelengths with different individuals. Some ties are spiritual. Sometimes, we connect with people emotionally and mentally while on the other hand there’s a possibility of getting romantically inclined. Some bonds are so much more than mere lust and “love” in the most generic sense. They go deeper, farther than anything else that you may have ever experienced.
Such instances leave us bewildered for most part of our lives. When we experience a relationship like that in our life, we want to hold on to it, tight with all our might – tight enough to turn our knuckles white. Alas! We seldom can, such is the irony of life; as we know it. Even if we want to flash freeze those stolen moments we just can’t because we almost never, I repeat, never realize that the time is now, the time is always NOW. You have to grab hold of what you have and make sure you keep it close when you have it, otherwise it slips out of your hand like grains of sand, and all that is left is an empty palm and an insatiable itch to relieve the emptiness inside your bare soul, and I’m afraid that burning desire enslaves us (you, me, all of us) for the rest of our lives as we move forward in different directions.